It’s 2021 a new year and ladies it’s about time you stop wasting your useful time in unproductive relationships. Life is too short to be around someone with who you are not completely happy.
The dating world is saturated with different kinds of men, and for your own sanity, here are some that you should do your best to avoid.
The guy who says he doesn’t want a relationship.
If a guy has already set the terms and conditions on your first date, he is most likely not looking for a serious commitment. And don’t think that you are going to be the girl who changes his mind. A guy who clearly says he doesn’t want a relationship is just looking for other things and you need to cut-off such relationship.
‘Benefits Guy’- Mr Take and Never Give.
He’s always asking you for favors. Can you lend him money? Can you stop by with dinner because he’s too lazy to go out? Men like this think only their needs are valid. They don’t care when you have to inconvenience yourself to please them. They want things and they expect you to satisfy their needs without asking for anything in return.
‘Mr Controller’ – The Controlling One.
Sister, always avoid guys with control issues. Men with control issues hold abusive tendancies that will only grow with time. And guess what you can’t fix them, so for your sanity avoid such relationships at all cost.
The “I’m too busy” guy.
According to Oprah Winfrey; “If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you. Nothing can make him stay.” A guy who is into you will never be hard to chase down and will never be too busy for you. However, If you’re the one that’s doing all the work, it’s time to say bye.
Mr Negativity, No Positive Thoughts or Actions.
Avoid guys who are always negative with no positive thoughts or plans ahead. You don’t want this type of guy in your life because he’s just going to put a damper on the entire year. He always has the stuff to complain about and doesn’t think there’s any good or happiness to be found in the world. You could tell him you got a promotion and he’ll find a way to make it seem like it’s not worth celebrating.